In recent months I've taken eye gazing to a whole new level for me.

When I meet people, especially when I'm attracted to them, I'll look them directly and strongly in they eyes as soon as possible. I will continue to look at them until they break the connection or something else happens to end the moment.

I have found that this suddenly brings attraction and interest to a different level. It helps instill a sense of confidence for me and convey an interest to the other person. I often find that women will continue to return the look for a rarther long time with me - even women I'm just passing or seeing across a room.

Recently I spent time with a woman I totally adore. The connection we found in eye gazing was probably the most intense experience I've ever felt. We did it so much in the week that we were together - from whereever we happened to catch each other looking - that it was noticed by and impacted others.

For the two of us it has affected our relationship immensely. When I'm stressed or tired or feeling a little bored I close my eyes and imaging her eyes looking at me. Sometimes I pick a particular moment that I remember other times I think about the feelings and emotions that stir within me when I look in her eyes.

From that connection I take a way a vision of her soul that I can carry with me. It is truely a beautiful experience and has left us both a little bit changed and an incredible amount closer!
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Angel of Love
Portland
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    Re: how has eye gazing affected your relationships?

    Sun, October 24, 2004 - 1:35 PM
    Eye gazing has had a profound effect on my relationship with my lover. It seems too intimate to discuss. Tantric soul gazing is very intense. We can feel the energy between us, and around us, and through us at those times, and I think that it is key to our communication and has helped us to bond very deeply.
    • Re: how has eye gazing affected your relationships?

      Thu, November 18, 2004 - 12:00 PM
      There's LOTS of eye gazing at the sacred Fire Circles... QUITE an intimate experience, being in purified, sacred space, within the company of a large group of others-- Brothers and Sisters sharing this Earthwalk-- and seeing so many "strangers" look INTO you, while being genuinely Open to allow YOU into them through eye gazing.

      Since the cosmic but brief union I had with a lovely star princess (See the posting "Your Eyes"), I've now understood the intensity that can be had in eye gazing, and-- though I'm Open to it-- have YET to share such rapture with another, though it HAS Opened me up to a new Understanding of what could be.

      I've got my eyes open, now, you might say.
      • I never considered it a 'technique', but I often gaze into the eyes of my son who is 21 months old. The first time he looked back into my eyes for about 5 minutes, with this beautiful smile. I cannot begin to describe how wonderful this experience was, just love and closeness.
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          I hear ya on that one. Children are so amazing at that stage. Sometimes I feel I can tell their soul age and intentions for this lifetime.

          And as far as adults go, there is someone (here on tribe) that I *see* at parties once in a while. When I gaze, this person isn't able to break away from me. I've dreamt about this person a couple of times, too. There is something connecting on a higher level between us during that gazing time.

          No, I haven't spoken to them about it. We barely know each other.
      • I have recently experienced eyegazing at Mayfire and it had such an impact I feel empty now that im back in the real world of Las Vegas. I find myself remembering and getting emotional. Its hard to do in the city, but i find myself doing it and smiling until I realize the reaction of the other person. then it is painful. I am profoundly affected by it and wish to practice it more when appropriate. thanks for this group.

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